65. Question Everything

Have you noticed that as we get older, our ability to question declines? We start out life as this little bundle of energy that questions everything around us. Spend a few minutes with a toddler and you will see what I mean.

The reasons we don’t continue to question are vast and complex. We spend our lives collecting knowledge and then think it’s our responsibility to spout what we have learned like a lawn sprinkler spraying anyone walking by.

Ultimately, it’s our ability to ask questions, not our ability to have the answers, that can shift the path of a river or move a mountain. Indira Gandhi said, “The power to question is the basis of all human progress.” A little preplanning goes a long way. Before a conversation, identify questions you might ask. Simple, well-thought-out questions can change the path of a person, a team, an organi­zation, and, yes, even the world.

What insightful questions can I ask in this conversation?