73. Create Heroes

Too often we cast ourselves as the hero in our own stories. We may want to be in the limelight and steal glory for a variety of reasons. For example, we might not be secure in our position, or we may think that being a hero creates job secu­rity. People see through this and ultimately it can have the opposite effect. It can even set us up for a tragic end when others try to tear down the self-professed messiah; we know what happens to messiahs.

It makes you more powerful when you make others the hero. You might be surprised to learn that when you hold people up to be a hero, even if they have not been the ultimate hero, it causes them to live up to that standard. Don’t worry; when you do good work, people will know.

There’s an old saying that applies here, “Praise the window, blame the mir­ror.” Praise what’s outside of us and if something doesn’t go right, look in the mirror first. This, versus trying to be a hero by praising ourselves and blaming others when things go wrong.

Who can I cast as heroes?